I'm a Grinch. There, I said
it. Given our families early Christmases, you'd think otherwise. A traditional
Americana Christmas reigned supreme in our household throughout my early teens.
I remember a lot of them fondly. My sister and I used to get new pajamas every
Christmas; you know the ones with the feet. Do they make them anymore? When we
were in Illinois at Christmas time my father liked to make the rounds with me
wishing all his relatives happy holidays. His commitment to the Air Force made
his time at home very precious. I was blessed to have great grandparents for
most of my early Christmases. I remember Christmas with them very fondly. On my
father’s side, it was a traditional German celebration at great grandpa Ben's
house. On my Mom's side, we had huge get together's at great grandmother
Maude's house. As I have said in past posts, this is where I grew to appreciate
food and its preparation. None of the maternal side of my family measured
anything and recipes were just a list of ingredients and subtle reminders. I
think the wrenching of families from their roots and constant moving might have
had something to do with my loss of affection for Christmas. That was the price
one paid for being a military brat. To me Christmas is about the gathering of
family and friends and Christmas dinner. When I was around my parents, some of
that old spirit would come back. When my father was still working my parents
would throw these huge parties for all the folks who worked with him to attend.
Friends and neighbors were also invited, My mother would complain about all the
preparation involved and I doubt she would have done it without mine or
someone’s help. They had nice homes on the Florida coast and we decorated
everything from the banana trees to the boat docked out back. These days the
availability of work pretty much dictates where I roost. Finances are such that
it precludes travel to see the folks I love and spend Christmas with them. At
least I have some pleasant memories to fall back on. Otherwise, BAH
HUMBUG! Merry Christmas everyone!
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